Ladies like a guy who leads well, without pulling, pushing or tugging them all over the dance floor! In fact, to lead properly, a gentleman must always be strong, and by strong here, I mean that he must always ensure that he keeps his dancing stance firm and his lady comfortable! By keeping to one dance position, you will not only get the interest and respect of the lady you dance with, you’ll also have plenty of other women wanting to dance with you!
Men, on the other hand, hate being led! They go where they want to go, and if they’re not leading, this will cause a lot of friction between the dancing couple! As a dancing instructor for the last four decades, I can tell you that the most important factor that makes a dancing couple gel is their ability to understand and accept who leads and who follows!
Women are more likely to be pursued for dancing if they have the ability to follow a lead well, and go where their partner wants them to without being clumsy and stumbling! If you can do so, you’ll have a dance relationship that’s as enjoyable as it is perfect! This is when the dancing as one concept comes in, which is vastly more satisfying and fun than being two people who are doing the same steps. In fact, dancing as one is essential for doing some dances such as the Salsa and the Waltz!
The connection forming between the dance partner is enough to make things sizzle on the dance floor. NOT true! Here are three main requirements for you to dance as one and sizzle on the dance floor! These are:
- Every step that the two of you make should be of the same size.
- Move at the same tempo. One should not be faster than the other!
- Move in the same direction. This is a very important concept for the follower to understand, more so than the leader!
So now you have my secrets! Go ahead and start grooving!
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