Friday, July 16, 2010

5 Reasons Why You Should Dance With Your Partner

Not everyone may like dancing, but you know what it's really fun and great for you especially once you're married! I'm about to share the reasons why below:

The first time I talked about this with a friend, he told me that the essence of dancing is to keep you physically fit. Becoming fitter can fight or lessen the speed of aging of an individual. If you are married this has to be a good thing right?

However dancing is not about physical fitness only. It may surprise you but dancing is also great for relationship development. This may sound strange but read on and I'll explain more. Learning about marriage is part of my job at this stage! I don't personally go to school to study about marriage and how to keep it healthy; however I do get ideas and thoughts every day.

Just today, I thought about the effect dancing can have on a married couple. Ok let's delve a little deeper:

1.) Dancing with your partner opens another opportunity for both of you to bond with each other. It connects the inner relationship between you as your eyes meet, your bodies get closer, and you can feel each others sense of love.

2.) When you dance, you hold and touch one another far longer than a quick hug. For some cases, there are couples who are not into hugging their partners at all. Probably they are used to just holding hands and saying I LOVE YOU.

And its true, dancing is just an alternative way of hugging one another. In fact, it put couples into a situation of releasing their feeling as their hands are tied, and bodies are closer.

3.) Maturely speaking, there are times in marriage life that you will not know the right point when you want to make love with your partner. But dancing together can put you both in a sensual mood. The dance steps and the music will instantly creates an atmosphere of love and affection for one another.

4.) Both couples probably have their own busy schedules everyday where it seems they have not enough time for each other. Dancing provides a special time for both of you to just talk, relax and share some new experiences that you tend to forget sharing.

5.) Dancing creates a connection! As you dance, there will be no practice required but the right connections within yourselves are made naturally. It is something really hard to explain, but as you both look into each other’s eye, non verbal communication takes place and creates an intimacy from within.

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